The clearer I get, the better
Posted on September 2nd, 2010 by adminThe clearer I get, the better you look.
-Dr. Rickie Byars-Beckwith
Rickie glided her message in on a wave of laughter (see quote
above). I guess there were about 200 of us in the room. The
message was strong, multi-layered and true. The clearer we all
got, the better we all looked to each other. With this light little
phrase, Rickie summed up just about everything we need to know about relationships.
We tend to think that our relationships are the way they are because of the other
person. We fall in love because the other is so wonderful or we blame the other for all
our problems. We try to change them or we try to make them like us. We exert all
kinds of efforts in the direction of the other.
Rickie?s little dictum reveals all that wasted energy and redirects us, in a light and
playful manner, to the truth.
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